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We are dedicated to providing resources and support for members of our communities through education, advocacy and service. Our programs and services are of no charge to participants and include information on health and wellness, domestic violence prevention and safety, teen mentoring and leadership programs, referrals to legal and social services, career development and financial literacy workshops, community events, volunteerism and other important issues which affect our communities.
We are a partnership with individuals, corporations, organizations, banking institutions, and law enforcement committed to providing the female population with resources for a healthy body and peace of mind.
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however we are looking for 10th
through 12th graders. All participants
receive FREE training. Teen leaders
participate in focus groups and are
advisors to make sure all participants
are receiving an essential, yet fundamental curriculum. Teen leaders
also participate in various activities geared towards their successful future. Our teen leaders are mentors who serve as mature, yet sensitive and caring role models and are assigned to an age appropriate mentee. Space is limited. To find out more please contact us.
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This FREE event is for men and women and includes a complimentary breakfast and parking.
Download the
Breaking Out of the Man Box
Event Flyer and Registration Format
We Are Impacting Communities
Hosts
A Call to Men
featuring
Keynote Speaker
Tony Porter
Co-Founder of A Call to Men
National Association of Men and Women
Committed to Ending Violence Against Women
Master of Ceremonies
Anthony "Tony" L. Herbert
Founder and CEO
"The Social Outreach Community Initiative"
Committed to Ending Violence in Our Communities
Saturday, November 13, 2010
Registration | Breakfast: 10:30 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. (SHARP)
Men's Breakfast Program: 11:00 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.
Rutgers University
Archibald S. Alexander Library, Pane Room
169 College Avenue, New Brunswick, New Jersey 08901
SEATING IS LIMITED - R.S.V.P. BY 10/15/10
Pre-Registration is Required and
Necessary to Receive Complimentary Parking Permit
Join us at this FREE and unique community awareness event where you will experience profound skits and engage in stimulating discussion focused on "well-meaning" men redining many of the social norms that define manhood.
Community Advocate Anthony "Tony" L. Herbert is
the Founder and CEO of "The Save Our Community Initiative" and The Professionals Network Organization USA.
Tony is a an engaging and exciting lecturer on
Small Business Ownership, Community Resource Development and Anti-Violence Initiatives who believes, "We must not allow the very fabric of our being to continue to be disrespected and abused. Women must be treated with the utmost respect and protected by us as men and our need for their friendship, partnership and wisdom!
This 2009 41st City District
Council Candidate has
worked as a Special Assistant
to Congressman Ed Towns
and City Councilmember
Priscilla Wooten. Tony has
over 20 years of community
outreach experience which
includes serving on numerous
boards such as the Central
Brooklyn Youth Initiative, the BK Style Foundation, Urban Community Council, the International Dream Team Christian Association, The Youth Step Foundation, Community advocate for Women's Health Issues, Volunteer advocate on Municipal Issues, Advocate Against Gun, Domestic and Teen Violence, as well as assisting Community residents in resolving issues such as immigration, housing, employment, health, public safety and crime prevention, in addition to numerous job and health fairs.
Tony Porter invites "well-meaning" men to leave the sidelines of silence for the playing field of action in ending violence against women. "While Breaking Out of the Man Box may force men out of our comfort zone, (it) can lead us into the end zone of positive change in relationships with women, children and other men."
- Voice Male Magazine
Tony Porter is the
Co-Founder of
ACall to Menwhich
challenges men to
reconsider their long
held beliefs about
women by encouraging
change in the behaviors
of men through a re-
education and training
process that challenges
sexism.
Tony is a gifted public speaker, passionate educator, and activist who offers a message of accountabilility and responsibility from a fresh perspective that is welcomed and supported by many grassroots and established organizations such as ours. He has worked in the social justice arena for over 20 years and is nationally, as well as internationally, recognized for his efforts to end men's violence against women.
Tony Porter has worked with the U.S. Military Academy at West Point, the U.S. Naval Academy at Annapolis, The National Football League, in addition to numerous colleges, universities and law enforce-ment around the U.S.A. He has also been a presenter for the United Nations' Commission on the Status of Women.
START OUT FRESH
INTERVENTION ADVOCATES
FREE
TEEN
Domestic Violence
Prevention Workshop
Contact: 973.652.8193
Domestic violence is a "black eye" on humanity and against the law. Silence is not golden. Are you at risk? Break the cycle of abuse. Protect yourself with a safety plan. Please note, the contents provided here is for general information. Please consult a legal and/or medical expert before taking action.
Women ages 16 to 24 experience the highest per capita rates of intimate violence--nearly 20 per 1000 women. (Bureau of Justice Special Report: Intimate Partner Violence, May 2000)
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE COALITIONS
Domestic Violence National Coalitions
Domestic Violence State Coalitions
Domestic Violence State Tribal Coalitions
National Coalition of Anti-Violence Program
State Coalitions Against Sexual Assault
CRIME & VICTIM STALKING SERVICES
National Center for Victims of Crime
National Network for Rape, Abuse & Incest
National Organization for Victim Assistance
National Sexual Violence Resource Center
LEGAL RESOURCES
Family Justice Centers
American Bar Association Community on Domestic Violence
Office on Violence Against Women
Violence Against Women Act
U.S.Department of Justice on Domestic Violence Awareness Resources
OTHER RESOURCES
Confidential Address Change Program
Family Violence Prevention Fund
New Jersey Resource Guide For Women
Risk Assessement Quiz
Safety Planning Tips
SAFETY HOTLINES
National Domestic Violence Hotline
National Children & Teen Hotlines
National Safety Hotlines
New Jersey Hotlines & Shelters
TEENRESOURCES
Download S.O.F.I.A.
Event Flyer - Teen Dating Program
AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY'S HEALTH CHECK
We have been fortunate to be a part of the lives of so many wonderful people. Cancer is affecting our communities at an alarming rate. Early detection and treatment is essential to saving lives. New discoveries are being made in research and treatment which emphasizes our need for education.
TrialCheck®is the nations premier searchable database for cancer clinical trials and debuted on the American Cancer Society website.
The 24 hour National Cancer Information Center (1.800.ACS.2345), gives millions of cancer patients quick access to clinical trial matches for their diagnosis and location. Take the TrialCheck® Screening Questionnaireto find out more.
Take a moment to review the information on risk factors and the latest research to empower you and your loved ones to take control of your health and well-being. A "healthier you" is the best gift you can give. Make an appointment today for a medical exam. A health check, is a great way to get started. Create your family history and download a new patient form before making an appointment to see your medical expert.
Please note, the information provided on our website is for general information.
Please consult a legal and/or medical expert before taking action.
RISK REDUCTION
The American Cancer Society recommends exercising 30 minutes or more, at least five days a week, to reduce your risk for many types of cancer such as walking, yoga, dancing, dancing, rollerblading, Tai Chi, hiking, cycling, swimming, rowing a boat or joining a team sport. Take a personal risk assessment today.
NATUROPATHY & ALTERNATIVE HEALTH
Contact us to partner and promote community campaign drives to create awareness one "click at a time." The following are ongoing partnered campaigns:
According to the Huffington Post, 2009 Annual Homeless Assessment Report, 70,000 families visited homeless shelters in 2009. 62% are of a minority group and 38% have a disability. These families are in need of assistance with basic toiletries.
TOILETRY COLLECTION
We are collecting toiletries from the list below for emergency shelters and transitional housing facilities in need of hygiene items for their residents. Please feel free to drop by or ship donations to our office at 15 Corporate Place South, Suite 320, Piscataway, NJ. Organize a drive with your company or group. Your generosity and kindness can make someone's first night's stay a little easier. We only accept NEW, unopened items. Download our brochure and join the campaign. If you are an agency in need of items, please contact us directly.The items in need for the kits include:
BREAKING SILENCES PROJECT
Our dedication to provide resources to victms
of domestic violence and abuse is our reason
for helping to facilitate this project and encourage
you to give "voice to the pain and victimization of
women across America with your personal
story. . .Click here to join the manuscriptand
tell your story."
Everyone deserves a chance to be a Star!
Becca's Closet was created as a legacy to Rebecca Kirtman and the project she started. Becca's Closet provides formal attire to high school students who otherwise would not be able to attend their prom/homecoming. They hold public events for girls to look through and try on gowns right before prom season, in addition to setting up personal appointments.
"Little things can make a big difference..." This was the phrase that served as the driving force behind the beautiful life and caring actions of 16-year-old Rebecca Kirtman - Becca, a cheerleader, honor student, and caring young woman, who passed away in a tragic automobile accident on August 20, 2003. Today, we remember her for her contributions to the community and have partnered with Centenary College, an affiliate chapter of Beccas closet, to collect prom dresses. If you would like to donate a dress or any of the items on the following "wish list," please contact us.
* Rolling racks (industrial strength)
* Clear plastic hangers
* Extra-long clear garment bags
* Mannequin forms
* Dry cleaning services
* Clear shoe boxes to house our donated shoes
Enter Becca's Closet
RETIREMENT & SOCIAL SECURITY:
If you have been married for at least 10 years, you are entitled to your ex-spouse's social security benefits if you are not disqualified based on your income base. You can begin to collect the benefits when your ex-spouse reaches age 62 and your divorce has been finalized for more than two years. If you have unmarried children that are under 18 years of age, they are entitled to survivor benefits if your ex-spouse is deceased. You are also qualified for survivor benefits as a widow.
INSURANCE: Make sure you get check ups if you are covered on your spouses insurance.
PROPERTY & ASSETS: Please consult with a licensed financial planner regarding your assets and holdings. A capital gains tax can be applied to property when they are sold. Your marital house is not subject to capital gains tax. If you remain in the house, consider if you will be able to maintain it after the divorce. If so, ask for a cash settlement. Note - inheritance is not considered part of the marital assets.
TAXES & LIENS: Check to see if there are any outstanding taxes owed or liens placed on your property by contacting your federal and state tax departments, in addition to local courthouse. You are both responsible for taxes and liens.
KEEP COPIES OF THE FOLLOWING:
- Savings - Life Insurance
- Checking - Disability Insurance
- Certificates of Deposit - Homeowners Insurance
- Mutual Funds - Medical Insurance
- Home Equity Loans - Umbrella Policy
- Brokerage Accounts - Automobile Insurance
- Credit Card Accounts - Property Title
- Mortgage Information - 401 K Plan
- Vehicle Title - IRA
- Purchase Price of Your Home - Keogh Plan
- Tax Returns For Last 5 Years - Wills & Trusts
- Six Months of Pay Stubs - Safe Deposit Box
DIVORCE RESOURCES
DIVORCE SUPPORT GROUPS
PLEASE NOTE - THIS SECTION IS FOR GENERAL INFORMATIONAL
PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT INTENDED AS ADVICE. PLEASE CONTACT
A LEGAL AND/OR FINANCIAL EXPERT FOR ADVICE AND ASSISTANCE.
STARTING PROCEEDINGS: Divorce is an emotional time and you should take care of your health and well-being as you begin this journey. Take a depression screening testand take care of yourself.
Retain your own attorney for fair representation to protect yourself. Do not sign anything until you have been advised by your attorney.
FINANCES: Consulting with a financial planner that is skilled in divorce proceedings to assist you in preparing for your future. Consider the following:
SUPPORT: Spousal (taxable) & Child Support (non taxable)
We express our heartfelt appreciation and gratitude to the following companies and organizations who truly care and make a difference. Their acts of kindness are making a difference one "click at a time." We have partnered with A Call to Men , the Breaking Silences Project, Becca's Closet, and Investors Savings Bank. Check out our campaigns section for more information about these organizations. We thank you in advance for your acts of kindness and commitment to help others help themselves.
*David & Husbands - Business Strategies
"We must commit ourselves to share the resources available for a healthy mind, body and soul. Abuse is never an excuse. Not only is domestic violence a crime, but a black eye on society. It destroys the very fabric that holds our families together. We must continue to be advocates to stop the violence." Member, National Domestic Violence Hotline Million Voices Campaign
* Jersey Cares
"When someone arrives on the doorstep of a local shelter, their lives have reached a point at which they often have none of the essentials that most of us take for granted. Women seeking refuge from abusive situations, victims of the economy whose search for income has been fruitless, children whose parents are in desperate circumstances and others in similar situations usually lack basic items such as toothpaste, moisturizer and hairbrushes. Generous volunteers like those of the We Are Impacting Communities Organization, Inc. help Jersey Cares to ease the pain of this difficult life transition and provide comfort to our neighbors who have never needed more to know that someone cares." - B. Dean, Executive Director
*A Call to Men
"WAICO's focus on health and wellness of women, and genuine hope and concern for men, brings the holistic approach needed for healing of our communities. I look forward to all the work we will do together." - T. Porter, Co-Founder and Co-Director
* Breaking Silences Project
"Silence is the sustenance of power and oppression. Let us remain silent no more." - In Solidarity, Goldie, Founder
You Are Worth It
Do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
Do not set your goals by what other people deem important.
Only you know what is best for you.
Do not take for granted the things closest to your heart.
Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
Do not let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past nor for the future.
By living your life one day at a time, you live all the days of your life.
Do not give up when you still have something to give.
othing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
It is a fragile thread that binds us to each other.
Do not be afraid to encounter risks.
It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
Do not shut love out of your life by saying it is impossible to find.
The quickest way to receive love is to give love; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly.
Do not dismiss your dreams.
To be without dreams is to be without hope; to be without hope is to be without purpose.
Do not run through life so fast that you forget not only where you have been, but also where you are going.
Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way.
Author Unknown
* B R E E Z, the Band for the Event
Reaching back to your community strenthens another generation. It lets them know that they are worth the fight . . .Awareness and education makes the road a little easier for one to travel. Before you know it - THE WORLD IS TOUCHED!" - C. Jones, Songstress
* Girls Respect Group
"Respect the work you do at We Are Impacting!" - Lorna Blumen, Author, Educational Consultant & Bullying Prevention Specialist
* My Pour Moi
"Children have a right to two parents; children need at least one parent." - S. Jones, Principal
* Kokopelli Supply, LLC
"To be aware is to care for the well being of ourselves and those around us." - S. Reisman, Owner
* Novus Call
"Proud healthy mind and body supporter." - T. Capson
* Spa Resort Travel.com LLC
"A healthier you is the best gift you can give. Commit to having an annual check up."
- - Member, Susan G. Komen, Race For A Cure, Circle of Promise
"I was so impressed by what we
women are accomplishing. My
generation was told we would be
teachers, secretaries or
nurses until we found a
husband and then we'd
become housewives. . . Well,
look at us now! We can do
anything we set our minds to and
we have great minds. Keep up the
fight. You are not alone out there." - Marie
Our community initiatives are designed to help those in need. We invite you to share your suggestions, tips, and/or stories regarding our community awareness initiatives and its effect on you.
Interested in being a featured writer, want to share your community event or stay on top of the latest information, sign up and help us in our mission to educate and save a life one "click at time."
CELEBRATE WITH AWARENESS
Contact us to host an event to bring awareness to your
cause or as a tribute to your loved one. Our Special
Events Director will work with you to coordinate a
memorial event. Click on The Secret to preview our
event gallery.
We Are Impacting Communities, Inc. express our heartfelt appreciation to Crystal A. Jones, two year Breast Cancer Survivor, who inspires us all. Here is her story of triumph. . .
My name is Crystal A. Jones, and I am a breast cancer survivor.
It was Thanksgiving Day and boy, did I realize I had a lot to be thankful. I found a lump in my breast and I told my boyfriend, Michael.
Michael examined the lump; and from the look on his face, I could tell he was worried. I called the doctor and the rest happened so
fast - a biopsy was performed and in three days, I was scheduled for a mastectomy.
When the doctor told me about my prognosis, I was so scared. I immediately called my brothers and Michael and together, we went
to my parents' house. I thought I was keeping a secret, but it holds true that a mother knows her child. My mom is my best friend.
She knew something was wrong. I told her my prognosis. She held my hand and told me that everything would be alright; and we
were in this together. My family supported and embraced me with love - which is the basis of our foundation. They reassured me that
I would not go through this alone.
The next day, I went to work and informed my co-workers. They formed a circle of prayer and prayed for me (which included people
from all over the world). Everyone was of a different faith; but I believed we all prayed to the same GOD! My mom called everyone she
knew, and they put me on their prayer list. Before I knew it, I was on a prayer list everywhere!
My family and I went to my follow-up doctor's appointment. When the surgery was scheduled, my heart dropped and the tears started flowing. My first thought was about my child! I asked GOD not to do this to me because I am all my son has. I prayed and cried; prayed and cried. I went for a walk with Michael and told him that I didn't want to die. He told me that I was not going to die and would be alright. Michael told me that I had work to do, a child to raise, and was not going anywhere! I knew I had my family and crazy support. The support was so heavenly that I felt like I was floating! My best friend, Leslie, happened to lose her job on the day I found out that I had breast cancer and never left my side! Oh, I forgot to tell you that I had angels for doctors. My gynecologist stayed with me every step of the way; and when my doctor informed me that I had a large lump with satellites spreading to my lymph nodes, he prayed for me. We had a lot of work ahead of us. If you don't understand, let me make you understand how powerful my support was. It was all around and through me! Michael and I wrote a song for them. The name of the song is Angels By My Side.
The day of the mastectomy was very quiet. It seemed that I could not get it together. Michael and I went to pick up my mom, and off to the hospital we went. So; I am in the hospital, waiting to go into surgery which was scheduled for 10:00 a.m. However, I didn't get wheeled into surgery until 3:00 p.m.! Can you imagine the anxiety that was flowing through the waiting room? I was taken to the operating room and then I woke up. My doctor told me that I must have had a lot of people who had a connection with GOD, because he only found one lump and it did not spread. My family rejoiced! My mom, who is very reserved, jumped and shouted Thank you GOD! I am so blessed - I felt no pain and went home the next day.
I still had a long road to travel. I needed chemotherapy every three weeks for six months. When the doctor told me I needed chemotherapy, the only thing that stayed in my mind was that I was going to lose my long, flowing hair. As an African American woman, having naturally long hair is quite a feat to achieve. Upon arriving at the hospital for my first chemo treatment, I sat waiting for something to happen. It was okay - I didn't feel anything. I went home and within three days, I began to feel sick. I lost my appetite and taste buds. I felt nauseous all the time and vomited. Within the three weeks of chemotherapy, I tried to hold on to my hair; but eventually lost it.
Let me tell you something - GOD puts people in your path for a reason. I was at my lowest point and was on my way to purchase
a wig; however, I never purchased one. A saleswoman in the wig store sensed something was wrong with me; so I told her my
story. She asked me to go home, shave my head, and take my power back - get control of my situation. " When you have lemons,
you make lemonade." I took her advice and decided to try it bald. I then went home and called my two best friends Leslie and
Stacey. They came over to my house, got drunk and shaved my head. Next, I went to see my dad and he told me that I was the
most beautiful woman that he had ever seen. One of my brothers shaved his head and the other cut off his ponytail. Hallelujah, I
was delivered, got my power back and was ready to take on the world! The saying is true - "You are not your hair."
Today, I am feeling great and taking each day as it comes. I am the featured vocalist in a band called Breez, the band 4 the event. In addition to my child and family, Breez is my therapy. We now have our debut cd out entitled "Come Catch the Breez." It has received air play and creating quite a buzz. I believe that my musical talent helps me focus and keeps me grounded and never miss a show. As a matter of fact, our audience thought that I shaved my head for a new look and it worked! (smile) I am renewed. I focus on positivity and keep good thoughts. I am here, standing strong, and loved. There is life after cancer.
Blessings to you,
Crystal A. Jones
Breast Cancer Survivor, Two Years
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